i might become agoraphobic because.....

....one sunny afternoon i could go to a baseball game and inadvertently reveal to the entire united states, "yes, i am the biggest asshat in the country."
 

the future mr. and mrs. oblivious

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znOdi71KwUA
judge for yourself


http://moms.today.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2012/04/27/11428418-crying-baseball-tots-mom-he-doesnt-get-everything-all-the-time?lite
oh i bet he used to.


http://thefw.com/fans-who-stole-foul-ball-from-crying-kid-respond/
wahwahwah
i wanna be at that wedding!

cmk

BLL POS SPOTLIGHT

hunter moore, piece of shit

i am not a fan of dr. drew.
i am a fan of hlbic (head legal bitch in charge) nancy grace and if i do not click fast enough over from hln to msnbc's maddow, i get sucked into the dr. drew circus of the famously fucked-up.
enter hunter moore.
once upon a time, some girl had the audacity to break hunter's lil heart and he was not havin' it!
revenge came in the form a website that encouraged the broken-hearted to send in photographs of their exes in various stages of dress or undress. and surprisingly!! it was mostly the latter - the less dress and more humiliating all the better.
long story short, moore has shutdown his pos website and weirdly sold the domain to an anti-bully website that looks more like an episode of cnbc's 'mad money' with jim cramer, the bull included i kid you not!
the content is mostly cut and paste stories contributed by who the hell knows. the site is gaggingly celebritycentric and who is the last person on earth you want to hear about getting bullied?
for me, it's a kardashian, but you fill in the blank as you see fit.


well, guess who the first person you see on the newly acquired "anti-bully" website is?
dr. drew.
swear.
i refuse to watch the video, and yes i am going to make an ass-umption out of myself, but one year's pay- it is an anti-bullying psa by dr. drew.
so dr. drew appears on the site that was bought from pos hunter moore, who happened to be dr. drew's guest, who by all appearances seemed to outrage dr. drew but not so much that he chose to be affiliated with all of these pieces of shit.
no facebook like or thumbs up for you either, dr. drew.
and pffffft.

may i introduce you to a bully and then some, 

BLL'S POS OF THE DAY:

who could dump this?

http://www.stuff.co.nz/technology/digital-living/6801998/Revenge-porn-website-shut-down


it stops here
and it stops now.
cmk

   kenneth james weishuhn   

 

bullied to death

http://iowacity.patch.com/articles/gay-iowa-teen-s-suicide-spurs-cyberbullying-discussion-iowa-city- 

vigil-planned-for-friday

 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/17/kenneth-weishuhn-gay-iowa-teen-suicide_n_1431442.html
 beautiful video tribute to kenneth

http://www.cafemom.com/group/114201/forums/read/16414179/Wedding_Plans_of_Boy_Bullied_to_Death_Make_His_Suicide_Even_Harder_to_Bear
this will break your heart

http://ronkemp.blogspot.com/2012/04/kenneth-james-weishuhn-14-death-by.html
 please show your facebook support, here:

help make philadelphia a bully free city

recently, i heard shouting from rooftops and presidents, "trayvon martin could have been my son".
fine.

i'm going to shout, "kenneth james weishuhn could have been my son."

i want to hear presidents and people everywhere join me in shouting, "kenneth james weishuhn could have been my son."

and then let's DO something.
i live in the philly burbs; however, i have a car and i will drive to help organize an event; a meetup; whatever anyone in my area is committed to participating in.

there must be a national voice. families are suffering from state to state; however, we should take a page from the trayvon martin movement and unify the message:
it stops here and it stops now!
please help.

 

phoebe prince

 

the bully project

after many failed attempts to communicate with hirsch or any spokesperson from 'bully' in regard to their totally bizarre decision to team-up with formspring, i have decided to no longer promote the movie.

p.s.

Published on

2012-04-21 04:25
Pacific Daylight Time

this particular post titled, 'the bully project', has nothing to do with bulliesleaningleft.
this is only meant to address the movie, and promoting the movie on this blog as i have strong objections to the association with formspring- one of THE worst bully blogs on the net.

i had a injury several weeks ago that kept my attention away from blogging and since i was awaiting a response from the 'bully' people, i worked on behind the scenes techish stuff to improve and streamline my page.
since the page is fairly new, i have kept myself busy figuring my way 'round blogger.com, webmaster tools, google this and google that and now even a google with a +.

anyway, wanted to reassure all, bulliesleaningleft will go on as usual, if not so much better!
thanks for your concern )
peace
cmk

if john mayer gets it, why don't you?

john mayer, born 1977

"Boys, you can break
You'll find out how much they can take
Boys will be strong
And boys soldier on
But boys would be gone without the warmth from
A womans good, good heart

On behalf of every man
Looking out for every girl
You are the god and the weight of her world

So fathers, be good to your daughters
Daughters will love like you do
Girls become lovers who turn into mothers
So mothers, be good to your daughters too".
'daughters' is track 8 from john mayer's 2003 release, 'heavier things'.  

2003 - 1977 = 26

so let me wrap my mind around this-

a 26 year old spoiled yet brilliant musician hailing from the 1% part of connecticut, sums up the importance of fathers and mothers in the chorus of a 2005 grammy winning song, and he's a freakin' guy to boot!
now, if john mayer gets it 9 years ago, why aren't real fathers and mothers getting it, too?
this is more than a little disturbing.

ok, well first, go here and read the lyrics as you hear the lyrics:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y2evTPyTcio
now, bookmark this or subscribe to this or do whatever you have to in order to maintain access to this, so as a father or mother you can remind yourselves of your role.
loop it even.
john mayer has proved himself nothing more than a social douche' bag with mad guitar skills and the lyrical wisdom of a man say, eddie vedder's age.
but, if a 26 year old, childless man-whore knows more about parenting than you do, let this be your wake-up call.

something is going mad wrong with our daughters.
i don't want to rely on john mayer to solve this one.
love his tunes- his character not so much.
not yet anyway; his wisdom is still cookin'.

i have the good fortune of having an unusually open and direct dialogue with my youngest daughter. she is fully aware of my agenda to expose adult cyber-bullying; however, cyber-bullying is sadly only one in a litany of symptoms of a far larger problem facing our daughters, sons, and society in general.

for several+ years i have casually observered age-challenged facebook walls, the "no, not that wall my other wall" facebook walls, and the internet equivalent of a slam book from 1972,

hook-up book

formspring.
years ago, facebook was essentially, a girl's online diary. then it became a diary and a virtual photo album.
boys like picutres.
boys had no interest in what girls talked about.
and it wasn't until the picture posting thing grew in popularity and boner potential, that guys decided they wanted to play facebook, too.

facebook has gone from innocuous status updates and photos of girls being naughty at saturday sleepovers with jack daniels to: tit shots, butt shots, and sexual exploits that would make e.l. james turn 50 shades of red.

adorable scout virgins

i taught some of these girls the girl scout pledge and helped them earn craft badges for chrissakes! i watched one or two play t-ball in cute little nickers and baseball caps after kindergarten. 

juliet lowe's idea's of girl empowerment including: camping, starting fires, and how to wrap a tourniquet in case a bear tore your arm off camping, has been replaced with jenna jamison's idea of girl empowerment through her vagina and a really good vibrator.
and jenna doesn't even have badges.

girls believe they are empowering their female self, because now they can be callous little twats when it comes to sex and thanks to facebook, prove it with regular wall updates and evidence photos.

slutty scout

it is quite possible, when god reached into adam's gut and yanked out a rib, it was a bad rib. it was the one that associated sex with love, emotion, and spooning.
and communicating even after he pulls it out and wipes it off.
women got that rib.
to compensate, god gave adam an extra bone in his dick and it's been downhill from eden ever since.

yeah, i am pretty sure there is an anthropological connection between the hard on and the slut-pass that apparently comes with it like some sort of genital warranty.
even adam had a first wife that most of you do not even know about, named lillith.
lillith kicked ass and was the original gloria steinem - and any one of you reading this who does not know who gloria steinem is, that is your homework this evening. go look her up!
for now, read:

original hbic

Adam's Other Wife
According to Hebrew myth, Eve was not Adam's first wife. That distinction, such as it was, belonged to one by the name of Lilith. Everybody agrees that Adam and Lilith did not get along, mainly because of sex. The tale goes that when Adam wanted to lie with her, Lilith took offense at the prone position he demanded. "Why must I lie beneath you?" she asked. "I am your equal."

girls, remember lillith. she didn't have to give it up because she was already adams' equal.
that is your first lesson in female empowerment.
we are born empowered.
do not freely give up seeking what you already have.
be well; make wise choices; we'll talk soon.

phoebe prince- bullied to death

cmk

p.s. i appreciate your consideration while my site experiences it's growing pains. my presentation here, resembles my life. i am all over the place most of the time and it takes me a while to settle myself in.
it is my ultimate goal to end girl-on-girl hate. i would love to use the term girl-on-girl hate; however, being the cynical woman i am, i would get shitloads of perverts looking for girl-on-girl action.
rollseyes...i'm tellin' ya, it's the bone. i think it's entirely possible they truly can't help it.
but! i will never, ever believe that thing will:
a. implode
b. fall off
if it doesn't get used regularly. bullshit.
i will eventually knit bullies leaning left into a cohesive collection of pages and posts to share stories, resources, plans of action, etc.
i lovelove facebook; however, social networking, cell phones, text messaging, and pretty much all things technology related for "communicating", remove the facetime part of human interaction.
technology promotes removing the human from human interaction and loses all the wonderful, distinctive qualities that celebrate our human-ness.
love, empathy, kindness, respect- each a human character trait, none of which is required by the www.
bear with me as i build this page and this movement to eradicate the girl-on-girl hate that dominates facebook walls.
but more importantly, eliminate the hate in our lives.
don't wait for others to do this for you.
apathy kills.
truly.
ty.

bully pg-13 for wide release

https://www.facebook.com/bullymovie

http://stalkingsmerconish.blogspot.com/2012/04/bully-released-with-pg-13-rating.html

blockers, broads, bullies, and frauds

semper fi

i think of myself as a "broad".
for those of you under, like 40, a broad would be:
tarzan's jane
kathryn hepburn

hillary clinton

annie oakley
eleanor roosevelt

lady gaga
"broad" is an antiquated term for tough-as-nails women, and while it is totally outdated, i consider it complimentary.
many disagree.
but i was genetically predisposed and raised to be a broad.
my father is a retired marine. i was surrounded by 36 years worth of leatherneckery and even married a couple of them.
broad is in my blood and i wear her proudly.
however, even a broad gets her feelings hurt.
eleanor endured a marriage that included her husband and her husbands morally bankrupt sidepiece, and ran a country to boot!
i can now say the same for sec. of state clinton.
cowboys told annie oakley to put that gun away and go bake some pie.
i have to fess up and admit that there are moments when the bully behavior encouraged by the sandies and their ilk (lovelove that word) hits a nerve.
i'm old but better than that, i have reached a level of awareness so that i no longer feel "hurt" as i would if i were a child. 

heck, as few as 4 years ago i might have felt overwhelmed and ganged up on and bailed.
checked out fox(gasp!) news, or cnn.
no, it isn't hurtful as much as shocking that not only adults, but old-as-dirt adults behave this way.
more shocking than that, is the mob mentality that exists among the aforementioned older-than-dirt posters.
it is the 'cyber-bully domino effect': one confrontational post from the day's appointed instigator topples the first domino in a line of dominoes and all threadhell breaks lose for some poor loner domino.
now, the sandies themselves are the easy part.
anyone with an abysmal  knowledge of human nature and psychology can figure these two out within 10 posts.
not the problem.
i find the problem to be those who follow their example.
the ones who will only chat through private messaging, rather than the thread.
those with snide little digs cleverly directed at no one, yet obviously directed at someone.
the constant blocking, and here's my rant on that:
i believe i have mentioned these people are older-than-dirt, right? ok. when a user is blocked by another user, the blockee can't see the blocker's posts, and vice-versa. when 10 people block a user, the blockee see's 10 less conversations and so on, and i hope it is here you catch my drift.
bully-blocks render the mass-blocked poster as limp as a monk's dick.
the art of communicating with other adults is rendered impossible due to the inability to see half the damned conversations going on.
this does not hurt anything remotely close to a feeling; just pisses me off some days more than others.
and it is only the sandies and their ilk who encourage this negative threadetiquette.
i have never seen the thread repubs mass-block anyone.
i have never seen a thread repub announce to new posters, "block him! block her! block them!".
and when i do have the ability to see that with which you believe you have blocked, i never, ever see the level of hypocritical, name calling, lambasting, stereotyping, CAP LETTERING, from the thread repubs.
don't get me wrong, there are repub threadloons like yourselves, however, they are few in number and easily beaten up by your bully pulpiteers.
most of the time i shake it off and move on to my next big thing for the day.
some days i just want to rant about it.
today is that day.
in conclusion, there are sandies everywhere, of every age.
there are presumably full-grown men and women who fall in lockstep with  threadcliques consistenting of the downtrodden, the sickly, and ex-communicated priest-nurses and join the sour sandies at the hip of hate.
all bullies are mean and awful and they all suck.
especially the ones with grey hair, wrinkles, and sagging nut sacks.
there, i said it.
thank you for listening, now i am done )

it stops here, it stops now.
you're invited to join.
cmk

phoebe prince

p.s. buddha wasn't always buddha, either. once, he was a rich dude, as in 1% rich. he wasn't always perfect, and i have no expectation i will be either.