i might become agoraphobic because.....

....one sunny afternoon i could go to a baseball game and inadvertently reveal to the entire united states, "yes, i am the biggest asshat in the country."
 

the future mr. and mrs. oblivious

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znOdi71KwUA
judge for yourself


http://moms.today.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2012/04/27/11428418-crying-baseball-tots-mom-he-doesnt-get-everything-all-the-time?lite
oh i bet he used to.


http://thefw.com/fans-who-stole-foul-ball-from-crying-kid-respond/
wahwahwah
i wanna be at that wedding!

cmk

BLL POS SPOTLIGHT

hunter moore, piece of shit

i am not a fan of dr. drew.
i am a fan of hlbic (head legal bitch in charge) nancy grace and if i do not click fast enough over from hln to msnbc's maddow, i get sucked into the dr. drew circus of the famously fucked-up.
enter hunter moore.
once upon a time, some girl had the audacity to break hunter's lil heart and he was not havin' it!
revenge came in the form a website that encouraged the broken-hearted to send in photographs of their exes in various stages of dress or undress. and surprisingly!! it was mostly the latter - the less dress and more humiliating all the better.
long story short, moore has shutdown his pos website and weirdly sold the domain to an anti-bully website that looks more like an episode of cnbc's 'mad money' with jim cramer, the bull included i kid you not!
the content is mostly cut and paste stories contributed by who the hell knows. the site is gaggingly celebritycentric and who is the last person on earth you want to hear about getting bullied?
for me, it's a kardashian, but you fill in the blank as you see fit.


well, guess who the first person you see on the newly acquired "anti-bully" website is?
dr. drew.
swear.
i refuse to watch the video, and yes i am going to make an ass-umption out of myself, but one year's pay- it is an anti-bullying psa by dr. drew.
so dr. drew appears on the site that was bought from pos hunter moore, who happened to be dr. drew's guest, who by all appearances seemed to outrage dr. drew but not so much that he chose to be affiliated with all of these pieces of shit.
no facebook like or thumbs up for you either, dr. drew.
and pffffft.

may i introduce you to a bully and then some, 

BLL'S POS OF THE DAY:

who could dump this?

http://www.stuff.co.nz/technology/digital-living/6801998/Revenge-porn-website-shut-down


it stops here
and it stops now.
cmk

   kenneth james weishuhn   

 

bullied to death

http://iowacity.patch.com/articles/gay-iowa-teen-s-suicide-spurs-cyberbullying-discussion-iowa-city- 

vigil-planned-for-friday

 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/17/kenneth-weishuhn-gay-iowa-teen-suicide_n_1431442.html
 beautiful video tribute to kenneth

http://www.cafemom.com/group/114201/forums/read/16414179/Wedding_Plans_of_Boy_Bullied_to_Death_Make_His_Suicide_Even_Harder_to_Bear
this will break your heart

http://ronkemp.blogspot.com/2012/04/kenneth-james-weishuhn-14-death-by.html
 please show your facebook support, here:

help make philadelphia a bully free city

recently, i heard shouting from rooftops and presidents, "trayvon martin could have been my son".
fine.

i'm going to shout, "kenneth james weishuhn could have been my son."

i want to hear presidents and people everywhere join me in shouting, "kenneth james weishuhn could have been my son."

and then let's DO something.
i live in the philly burbs; however, i have a car and i will drive to help organize an event; a meetup; whatever anyone in my area is committed to participating in.

there must be a national voice. families are suffering from state to state; however, we should take a page from the trayvon martin movement and unify the message:
it stops here and it stops now!
please help.

 

phoebe prince

 

if john mayer gets it, why don't you?

john mayer, born 1977

"Boys, you can break
You'll find out how much they can take
Boys will be strong
And boys soldier on
But boys would be gone without the warmth from
A womans good, good heart

On behalf of every man
Looking out for every girl
You are the god and the weight of her world

So fathers, be good to your daughters
Daughters will love like you do
Girls become lovers who turn into mothers
So mothers, be good to your daughters too".
'daughters' is track 8 from john mayer's 2003 release, 'heavier things'.  

2003 - 1977 = 26

so let me wrap my mind around this-

a 26 year old spoiled yet brilliant musician hailing from the 1% part of connecticut, sums up the importance of fathers and mothers in the chorus of a 2005 grammy winning song, and he's a freakin' guy to boot!
now, if john mayer gets it 9 years ago, why aren't real fathers and mothers getting it, too?
this is more than a little disturbing.

ok, well first, go here and read the lyrics as you hear the lyrics:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y2evTPyTcio
now, bookmark this or subscribe to this or do whatever you have to in order to maintain access to this, so as a father or mother you can remind yourselves of your role.
loop it even.
john mayer has proved himself nothing more than a social douche' bag with mad guitar skills and the lyrical wisdom of a man say, eddie vedder's age.
but, if a 26 year old, childless man-whore knows more about parenting than you do, let this be your wake-up call.

something is going mad wrong with our daughters.
i don't want to rely on john mayer to solve this one.
love his tunes- his character not so much.
not yet anyway; his wisdom is still cookin'.

i have the good fortune of having an unusually open and direct dialogue with my youngest daughter. she is fully aware of my agenda to expose adult cyber-bullying; however, cyber-bullying is sadly only one in a litany of symptoms of a far larger problem facing our daughters, sons, and society in general.

for several+ years i have casually observered age-challenged facebook walls, the "no, not that wall my other wall" facebook walls, and the internet equivalent of a slam book from 1972,

hook-up book

formspring.
years ago, facebook was essentially, a girl's online diary. then it became a diary and a virtual photo album.
boys like picutres.
boys had no interest in what girls talked about.
and it wasn't until the picture posting thing grew in popularity and boner potential, that guys decided they wanted to play facebook, too.

facebook has gone from innocuous status updates and photos of girls being naughty at saturday sleepovers with jack daniels to: tit shots, butt shots, and sexual exploits that would make e.l. james turn 50 shades of red.

adorable scout virgins

i taught some of these girls the girl scout pledge and helped them earn craft badges for chrissakes! i watched one or two play t-ball in cute little nickers and baseball caps after kindergarten. 

juliet lowe's idea's of girl empowerment including: camping, starting fires, and how to wrap a tourniquet in case a bear tore your arm off camping, has been replaced with jenna jamison's idea of girl empowerment through her vagina and a really good vibrator.
and jenna doesn't even have badges.

girls believe they are empowering their female self, because now they can be callous little twats when it comes to sex and thanks to facebook, prove it with regular wall updates and evidence photos.

slutty scout

it is quite possible, when god reached into adam's gut and yanked out a rib, it was a bad rib. it was the one that associated sex with love, emotion, and spooning.
and communicating even after he pulls it out and wipes it off.
women got that rib.
to compensate, god gave adam an extra bone in his dick and it's been downhill from eden ever since.

yeah, i am pretty sure there is an anthropological connection between the hard on and the slut-pass that apparently comes with it like some sort of genital warranty.
even adam had a first wife that most of you do not even know about, named lillith.
lillith kicked ass and was the original gloria steinem - and any one of you reading this who does not know who gloria steinem is, that is your homework this evening. go look her up!
for now, read:

original hbic

Adam's Other Wife
According to Hebrew myth, Eve was not Adam's first wife. That distinction, such as it was, belonged to one by the name of Lilith. Everybody agrees that Adam and Lilith did not get along, mainly because of sex. The tale goes that when Adam wanted to lie with her, Lilith took offense at the prone position he demanded. "Why must I lie beneath you?" she asked. "I am your equal."

girls, remember lillith. she didn't have to give it up because she was already adams' equal.
that is your first lesson in female empowerment.
we are born empowered.
do not freely give up seeking what you already have.
be well; make wise choices; we'll talk soon.

phoebe prince- bullied to death

cmk

p.s. i appreciate your consideration while my site experiences it's growing pains. my presentation here, resembles my life. i am all over the place most of the time and it takes me a while to settle myself in.
it is my ultimate goal to end girl-on-girl hate. i would love to use the term girl-on-girl hate; however, being the cynical woman i am, i would get shitloads of perverts looking for girl-on-girl action.
rollseyes...i'm tellin' ya, it's the bone. i think it's entirely possible they truly can't help it.
but! i will never, ever believe that thing will:
a. implode
b. fall off
if it doesn't get used regularly. bullshit.
i will eventually knit bullies leaning left into a cohesive collection of pages and posts to share stories, resources, plans of action, etc.
i lovelove facebook; however, social networking, cell phones, text messaging, and pretty much all things technology related for "communicating", remove the facetime part of human interaction.
technology promotes removing the human from human interaction and loses all the wonderful, distinctive qualities that celebrate our human-ness.
love, empathy, kindness, respect- each a human character trait, none of which is required by the www.
bear with me as i build this page and this movement to eradicate the girl-on-girl hate that dominates facebook walls.
but more importantly, eliminate the hate in our lives.
don't wait for others to do this for you.
apathy kills.
truly.
ty.

bully pg-13 for wide release

https://www.facebook.com/bullymovie

http://stalkingsmerconish.blogspot.com/2012/04/bully-released-with-pg-13-rating.html

blockers, broads, bullies, and frauds

semper fi

i think of myself as a "broad".
for those of you under, like 40, a broad would be:
tarzan's jane
kathryn hepburn

hillary clinton

annie oakley
eleanor roosevelt

lady gaga
"broad" is an antiquated term for tough-as-nails women, and while it is totally outdated, i consider it complimentary.
many disagree.
but i was genetically predisposed and raised to be a broad.
my father is a retired marine. i was surrounded by 36 years worth of leatherneckery and even married a couple of them.
broad is in my blood and i wear her proudly.
however, even a broad gets her feelings hurt.
eleanor endured a marriage that included her husband and her husbands morally bankrupt sidepiece, and ran a country to boot!
i can now say the same for sec. of state clinton.
cowboys told annie oakley to put that gun away and go bake some pie.
i have to fess up and admit that there are moments when the bully behavior encouraged by the sandies and their ilk (lovelove that word) hits a nerve.
i'm old but better than that, i have reached a level of awareness so that i no longer feel "hurt" as i would if i were a child. 

heck, as few as 4 years ago i might have felt overwhelmed and ganged up on and bailed.
checked out fox(gasp!) news, or cnn.
no, it isn't hurtful as much as shocking that not only adults, but old-as-dirt adults behave this way.
more shocking than that, is the mob mentality that exists among the aforementioned older-than-dirt posters.
it is the 'cyber-bully domino effect': one confrontational post from the day's appointed instigator topples the first domino in a line of dominoes and all threadhell breaks lose for some poor loner domino.
now, the sandies themselves are the easy part.
anyone with an abysmal  knowledge of human nature and psychology can figure these two out within 10 posts.
not the problem.
i find the problem to be those who follow their example.
the ones who will only chat through private messaging, rather than the thread.
those with snide little digs cleverly directed at no one, yet obviously directed at someone.
the constant blocking, and here's my rant on that:
i believe i have mentioned these people are older-than-dirt, right? ok. when a user is blocked by another user, the blockee can't see the blocker's posts, and vice-versa. when 10 people block a user, the blockee see's 10 less conversations and so on, and i hope it is here you catch my drift.
bully-blocks render the mass-blocked poster as limp as a monk's dick.
the art of communicating with other adults is rendered impossible due to the inability to see half the damned conversations going on.
this does not hurt anything remotely close to a feeling; just pisses me off some days more than others.
and it is only the sandies and their ilk who encourage this negative threadetiquette.
i have never seen the thread repubs mass-block anyone.
i have never seen a thread repub announce to new posters, "block him! block her! block them!".
and when i do have the ability to see that with which you believe you have blocked, i never, ever see the level of hypocritical, name calling, lambasting, stereotyping, CAP LETTERING, from the thread repubs.
don't get me wrong, there are repub threadloons like yourselves, however, they are few in number and easily beaten up by your bully pulpiteers.
most of the time i shake it off and move on to my next big thing for the day.
some days i just want to rant about it.
today is that day.
in conclusion, there are sandies everywhere, of every age.
there are presumably full-grown men and women who fall in lockstep with  threadcliques consistenting of the downtrodden, the sickly, and ex-communicated priest-nurses and join the sour sandies at the hip of hate.
all bullies are mean and awful and they all suck.
especially the ones with grey hair, wrinkles, and sagging nut sacks.
there, i said it.
thank you for listening, now i am done )

it stops here, it stops now.
you're invited to join.
cmk

phoebe prince

p.s. buddha wasn't always buddha, either. once, he was a rich dude, as in 1% rich. he wasn't always perfect, and i have no expectation i will be either.

angry sandies

i have 2 threadnemesises intent on  painting me as the 'morning joe' town whore'.
weirdly, there are 4 derivatives of sandy all of whom i rub the wrong way. apparently i rub 2 particular sandies as if were an angry, republican masseuse, sumo-size.

from my facebook home page, i bounce over to the 'morning joe' thread. i often check it out after work, and sometimes open earlier chat threads to see if, in my absence someone had solved the obamacare deficiencies, or concluded who had actual sovereignty over who's vagina, or if anyone, resolved anything with  mutually respectful dialogue.
one poster on my favorite morning show thread is a dude named DonaldR. he is very measured and mature, and i cannot recall a time when he was awful to anyone. so, respect for DonaldR. of 'morning joe'.
i would hamster dance here, if:
a. the hamster dance was still relevant in 2012, or
b. could afford the bandwidth
so on with the show.
usually i threadon to catty sandies and their thread "friends" beating up republicans, stay-at-home-moms, and anyone who believes the idea that if and when my vaginal activity becomes a platform for gop debates, congressional hearings, and last but NOT at all least, sir limbaugh, it is at THAT moment that i remove my hoo hoo from your agenda and i will take care of her from hereto forth, as if she were my very own.however, thank you government, my government, for your interest in my twat; i got 'er from here.
oh! and it was the z-sandy that put her friends in quotes, not i.
(now y'all know why i was voted off the island, longest run-on sentence, second only to arlen specters latest book title which in total i believe, is 19 words long.)
19
if not beating up republicans, men are target numero dos.

all things bad can be traced back to something with a penis.
white ones, especially.
and if there are no peens on the thread, the conversation turns to the appointed, slutty girls.
so, who's voting for obama and who's voting for the terrestrial king?
it's a politics/pop culture/usa-style morning show.
this is NOT perez hilton.
cyber bullies tend to roam the www in herds.
this differs from  bullies one may physically, socially encounter in  school or a work setting. more often than not, there is a one-bully- per-capita-ratio, so it's one bully per whatever cliquey-group that capita happens to be. they follow their assigned bully around, but like 'west side story', there's tony and then there are a buncha sheep, i mean sharks.

cyber bullies on the other hand, flock together, and take advantage of facebook's - other than annoying, utterly useless tool- report user. sandies and their kind, regularly advise new posters to "ignore her!"; "don't chat with him; he's a repug!" or the girls at their finest, "she's sucha whore!"

and when the timing is perfect and all of the sandies collide, the morning show thread harkens me back to the days of slam books, class rings, and insincere ramblings from "friends" in a yearbook they would never otherwise sign if they didn't receive the benefit of memorializing their existence by signing your picture book.
problem? it's the air quotes.
those "friends" are the sucky, awful ones.
find friends. air-quote free ones.
and good luck to ya'.
now go behave and represent!

'bully' has limited release, march 30, 2012

 reactions for your consideration

OVER-THE-RHINE — Carol and Darryl Denham, of Taylor Mill, left a pre-screening of the film “Bully’’ last week hoping those in the audience would now understand what their son Sam, 13, went through.
http://news.cincinnati.com/article/20120326/NEWS/303260033/School-bully-film-makes-impression

The pre-screening of the film ‘Bully’ last week met with an enthusiastic response from attendees. Carol Denham’s son committed suicide in October aged 13, and it emerged he had been bullied.
http://www.educationnews.org/parenting/positive-reactions-at-bully-film-screening/

  I let the tears dry and reflected a bit before writing this.   From the opening moments of the Bully movie, my heart was breaking.  The stories woven through the film make very real the unbearable pain bullying leaves in its wake.  The NYC theater was filled, but it is not enough.
http://lifestoolbox.wordpress.com/2012/04/02/the-bully-movie-a-tool-for-beginning/

be well and peas out!

cmk

 
when i became aware of the controversy surrounding mpaa's "R" rating given to the film, 'bully', i wrestled to come to some sort of conclusion on the matter.

the idea that hearing any derivative of the word, fuck, would be a shock to the social-psyche of the american teenager, could only be thought possible if the mpaa is comprised of social-retards who give mark zuckerberg a run for his stellar people skills.

don't spend so much time worrying about this

it became apparent, there was no legitimate reason whatsoever to assign an "R"rating to this film depicting an issue of critical, social concern. i have read claims there is some concern in regard to using the film in schools as a teaching tool; however, the "F" bomb dropped 7 times would make this controversial.
because there are no techy-types around to edit out ear-burning fuck, fuckity fuck fuck-type words.
however, i do see one benefit and one only of the "R" rating.
these gut wrenching accounts need to be heard and witnessed by adults in order to address a dialogue every parent should be having with every child in every household to infinity and beyond!

i realize i am being naive.
i see these parents pull up directly in front of the theater, because there are no parking lots around; turn on their emergency flashers, (because this is a parking emergency due to the lack of parking lots) dashing with a gaggle of children to the box-office.
mom buys 1 ticket for each gaglet, sending them on their giggly, prepubescent way to see, american pie: the grandkids as mom hauls her large ass back to her illegally parked yet super-close suv and drives home.
now, i know this happens because i did it once myself, but i have an excuse! my daughter and her girlgaggle wanted to see 'titanic' 83 times. i saw it twice.
i was as depressed and sad as i had ever remembered being for 3+ hours two times, and there was just no way i was doing the titanic again.

the leo

besides, i had known who leonardo dicaprio was for years. my daughter and her girlfriends had just discovered such a creature existed, and for a couple of months spent every saturday afternoon at the one and only theater in town.
i bought tickets for the less-than-13 year olds, sent them in, hopped in my legally parked car (because jersey had parking lots back then) and went home.
i think that doesn't make me a curbside-mom tho, because i totally parked, and i saw 'titanic' two freaking times!
and i will never, ever be the flag-mom.
naive or not, i like to believe parents care and would want to see this film with their child and if they don't, the "R" rating might, i said might! force them to do the parenting thing. it might start a conversation that otherwise might not be had. it might bring awareness to the overall lack of kindness and respect for others, and a sickening social apathy we not only accept but have grown far too comfortable with.
it might.
what i know for a absolute fact, actually maybe even a universal truth, there is some tech dude out there somewhere who can delete the "FUCK" word and make it nicey-nicey for the children.
cuz the children are just so damned nice, aren't they?


http://action.thebullyproject.com/
click to film website
http://thebullyproject.com/indexflash.html
cnn entertainment reviews 'bully'
http://www.cnn.com/2012/03/30/showbiz/movies/bully-documentary-review-ew/index.html

phoebe prince

it stops here, it stops now.
cmk

bullies+block=blockheads

bullies block

a thread favorite for thought-control, is 'the block'. i realize this may be my personal hang-up, but i have an extremely difficult time availing myself of facebook's "i'm a total pussy" option, not because i am not a pussy sometimes, but because i cannot bear the idea of missing stuff.
i have simply learned to hold my tongue which affords me the grown-up attribute of ignoring dunderheads, and sometimes it's the dunderheads who say just the best stuff everrrr!

if i blocked threaders, i would miss stellar shit like this:

Friar Fred Jan WTF are you talking about "the Dole" i paid taxes for many years you can go Eff yourself Bitch!
Wednesday at 9:23am · Like
Friar Fred but for the grace of god go you Jan you piece of newt chit!
Wednesday at 9:23am · Like
yes, that friar. the same fred. the same stupid shit.

sinners

although, the earnest invocation in his second post to poor jan will surely keep fred in good stead with jesus, unless the ex- part of fred's priest gig was-->


the former priest, nurse, and all around good guy is not my favorite blockhead. how can that be, ask you?
because there is a woman that recently moved to the beloved place of my birth who i'm pretty sure, hates me more than cancer, george w. bush, and the entire gop combined all wrapped up in a box full of poop.
i wink.

early in my morning joe, https://www.facebook.com/MorningJoe thread relationship, i made a huge threadpaux the first day i encountered this woman. i claimed to know several people with a disease she has, who despite their "condition" manage to work part or full time, and have found much relief through alternative food choices and holistic remedies.
one would think i called her mother a whore, her father a dead ringer for steve buscemi, and gave birth to the world's stupidest children. well, i said nothing of the sort.



don't get me wrong; i am definitely, well, blunt.
but, unlike my favorite opiner on the face of this earth, i'm not so cuntish about it. buddhists  in general quite polite in their delivery.
not always, but most definitely usually.
that being my true and honest history of my relationship with this threadbully of epic proportion, let me share sssandra's approach to dealing with differing opinions:
SSSandra  I have blocked lots of people but only ever reported one ... and that is because after blocking her twice she came back again from a page I couldn't block. I had no choice then!
2 hours ago · Like
in real life, sssanndra walks the walk:
SSSandra  I have called women whore before I plummeted them with my fists but it doesn't mean I hate whores. 2 hours ago · Like

i live in sandra's laundry room, shhhhh!

so your "condition" allows you plummet (?) the shit out of  poor whores, but you can only freelance from yer house? i guess the whores come to your place for the shit beating?
sssandra and i will never be threadfriends:
SSSandra  Mark, in all fairness, you have been known to twist a thing or two that I have said ... but I do agree about the mentally ill people. That is what I think about Cat. Derranged comments and nothing valuable to contribute. Only smut and fluff from her.
March 10 at 9:24am · Like
SSSandra  Oh Mark ... I disagree about Cat ... her comments are every bit as derranged and hateful in my opinion as DanP's are in your opinion. She talks like a tramp and makes zero sense in 98% of her posts. I find that nauseating not amusing.
March 10 at 9:51am · Like · 2
well shoot!
still, 2 "blocked" months later, nag nag nag.

but it was not you

my advice to ms. sssandra- stop spreading hate; stop the bullying; stop plummeting(?) the ho's; and go get a fricken' real job!
it will never get better for anyone as long as presumed adults use this sort of language and intimidation, protected only by your internet access. which is also weird to me that one on state aid, with no job, has the extra bucks to chat such shit.
be the solution, not the problem.
stop grown-up cyber bullies!!!

mean people suck; mean girls suck the worst.

cmk

resources

resources

 http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

http://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/index.html

http://www.kzoo.edu/psych/stop_bullying/resources/websites.html

http://www.pacer.org/bullying/resources/

http://youthviolence.edschool.virginia.edu/bullying/bullying-links.html

this site is outstanding. includes publications, hotlines, and web addresses

http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bullying-discussions/general-support/3475671-national-bullying-hotline-australia

site for oz

http://money.howstuffworks.com/business/starting-a-job/how-to-handle-workplace-bullying.htm

addresses bullying @ work

http://www.netbullies.com/pages/1/index.htm

cyber bullies

cmk

*this will be updated with new resources as i come across them. i did my best to ensure none of the resources required $ of any kind, or appeared to be sharpton-ing from this crucial issue; however, time constraints, life, and obligations just afforded me time to skim each site.
**if anyone has suggestions for additions to this list, please msg. me at catkerr on facebook, or comment directly. thanks!

i-report about reporters

“If you're horrible to me, I'm going to write a song about it, and you won't like it. That's how I operate.”
― Taylor Swift

i made this face when i found this quote!

i am not a swift fan, but i stumbled across her quote and it was so perfect for today, i almost peed myself. lucky for y'all i don't sing; however, i can write about you and like all 23 of taylor's exes, you won't like it either.
as a regular facebook user, i have come across 2 users that i "reported" to some anonymous facebook reporting system that is as effective as herman cain was in seeking the 2012 gop nomination.
on both occasions, a poster threatened physical harm to another poster (one of whom was moi) and i reported it. the response from facebook was, well, nothing.

the facebook "report" tool is useless for anything other than causing the targeted user the hassle of agreeing to fb's tos 32 times before you can log in and enjoy your first cuppa joe!
it has also become a collective bargaining tool for grown-up bullies on msnbc's morning joe chat thread. threadregulars implement a "you are with us, or against us" policy and you better get that "i agree to terms of service" finger ready if you choose against!
i don't mind being reported by a user if i have said something so outrageous they felt an uncontrollable need to tattle-tale about it. what i object to is a group of adults who conspire to mass-report a fellow threader they may disagree with politically, or threadbitches that can't compete with the new girls and collectively decide to abuse another human being.

threadbully for wednesday, march 28, 2012

danp

danp takes full advantage of facebook's report/block options; however, do not report/block or challenge danp.

Cat Kerr danp reported me yesterday after whining all morning about people reporting danp. he reported me for inviting him to join the trayvon martin movement in philly.
danp, you're so silly.
what will you do if i tell you to have a nice day?
dry heave and call the po po?

about an hour ago · · 2

 

Dan P Cat you ignorant SLUT. The cyber slut family just loves to slander my name.
Why you ask?
Because I call them out for what they are.
The TRUTH about them makes them crazy.
Your claim tells me who reported me yesterday  wthough.
Cat Kerr thread slut and liar.
8 minutes ago · Like

Dan P Report that you cunt!!!!!
4 minutes ago · Like

(paraphrased)
nah. im just gonna write about it.
thanks danp.
you never let me down.

about an hour ago ·

admittedly, i stir a few pots. i like pot stirring. weak people always succumb when the pot starts to boil, and your true color always rises to the top.
nothing will get better until the danp's of the www are exposed and expunged.

bullies suck, danp. just stop it!
cmk

children of the universe

kayla marie wright 1991-2008

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2vAMxKvZqwU

http://kayla-wright.gonetoosoon.org/

heroes

stephanie nielson

 mom. wife. survivor. my hero.

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/stephanie-nielsons-story-tragic-crash-mom-lost/story?id=13574901#.T3IbHdlW2So

stephanie's blog-

http://nieniedialogues.blogspot.com/

phoebe prince

 phoebe nora mary prince

Phoebe Nora Mary Prince  1994-2010

 

 

                       

 http://articles.nydailynews.com/2010-03-29/news/27060348_1_facebook-town-hall-meetings-school-library

ex-priest - just another ex

BULLY OF THE WEEK SPOTLIGHT

FRIAR FRED

morning joe's resident holy man

every so often a priest makes headlines.
it is rare this is good news for the priest or the catholic church.
fortunately for priests, president obama is shining his "hope and change THIS!" spotlight on the entire church and it's dissatisfied vaginas.
it has been widely reported that 98% of catholic females use birth control, leaving a measly 2% that are neither dissatisfied nor concerned because they follow the fecking vagina rules. this seems, well, extremely disproportionate to the number of women partaking of the eucharist every sunday while they are unrythmically safe-sexing the whole week long.
liars liars skirts on fire. and your husbands too!
pffft.
another issue another day.

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back to friar fred.
once upon a time, in a tiny hamlet, in a tiny state, sat a tiny man.  fred  liked https://www.facebook.com/MorningJoe
when i began threading at mj, fred was cordial enough, however, i had the tremendous misfortune of living among hamlet's just like fred's little 'let, so i was guarded.
i am not the hamlet type.
and fuck the henryVIII stuff, too.
a very female unfriendly group of guys.
there's some irony properly used, dan.



i am pretty sure my personality is growing apparent the more i write, and i am not, well, a shrinking violet.
perhaps being an ex-priest, friar fred brings some girl-baggage to the thread; i dunno. but needless to say, friar fred and i did not hit it off. 

i have yet to discover any imperfect part

huge surprise.
when i think about priests, i could have several, reasonable thoughts. i choose to think of priests like this:
priests are supposed to be like religious mary poppinses: practically perfect in every way, like god's army of  soul nannies.
now, i understand priests are human beings above all else, and like all humans, there will always be a freak thrown in. i believe most priests are great nannies. i also believe if you are a ex-priest, you are ex for a reason. and is there really a good ex? even ex-smokers can turn into utter non-smoking assholes, so most most exes, suck.
i think i have stumbled upon friar freds' ex-essence.
 
one moment, fred is very poppinsey:

FriarFred  I know but the amazing lack of human compassion and understanding from someone who was once considered a hero of the left for his uncovering abusive mental institutions would stoop to the lowest level
about an hour ago · Like · 3
or
Friar Fred  Well i guess this reminds us to not judge a book by its cover.....Honorable Soldier, not so honorable citizen. One must wonder if he joined to escape his personal life and his sins as a civilian or if it was indeed predicated on his patriotism after 9/11
3 hours ago · Like

which would lead a reasonable person to believe friar fred was indeed one of "the good guys".
he uses words such as compassion, and offers advice to all: "don't judge a book by it's cover."
friar fred musta been an awesome priest.
lucky little hamlet there!!
screeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeching halt!

at any given time; however, the ex- friar fred says shit like this:
Friar Fred Richard Daniel is a troll he's not here to do anything but disrupt. I suggest all of us rational folk block him and end his influence over the discussions...same with Cat
39 minutes ago · Like · 2
fred kindly instructs other users who is to be heard and who is not:
Friar Fred  Sandy block him
31 minutes ago · Like
Friar Fred  Barbie Block her
30 minutes ago · Like · 1

 westboro is a hamlet?

friar fred could be a  great threadhost; however, freds' 1st amendment leaves out that part where the 1st amendment applies to all, and not just:

freds' likers

fred uses a photograph of himself with grey hair. fred is a grown-up. fred bullies posters daily. fred promotes censoring others and encourages threaders to block or report users he disagrees with or does not like. fred calls other adults names and regularly posts slanderous information about fellow threaders.

if you see friar fred at any of the following msnbc pages, please tell fred: BULLIES SUCK and you're not going to tolerate it!


friar fred's favorites:
https://www.facebook.com/upwithchris
https://www.facebook.com/MHPshow
https://www.facebook.com/MorningJoe

phoebe prince

it stops here and it stops now!
cmk

march on philly- monday march 26, 2012, 6:30 pm. stand up! www.philly.com for details. thank you!

philly march mon. 3/26/2012

trayvon martin

quickie!
i just discovered this evening the next march is on monday, so i am attending. i posted info on my fb wall so if any of my b&n'ers wanna ride in, hmu.
let support and unite!
thank you
cmk

bullies and hoodies

 

above all else, my heart breaks for the parents of trayvon martin. so far, the only absolute truth i can accept is, there is no more unimaginable pain or grief than the loss of your child. period.
i am inexpressibly sorry.
al, i hope you will find comfort and solace from those you love during this difficult moment. i am sorry for your loss.
but i still do not like you.
ok. now i rant.

a disclaimer-
i will not:
i will not replay events that occurred 3 weeks ago in sanford, fla.
nor will i render my opinion on events that occurred 3 weeks ago in sanford, fla.
i have a modest legal background, and aside from a few obvious cases that i followed like it was crack, i have finally learned to hold off on judging the guilt or innocence of a defendant, pretrial.
this is not to mean i won't offer opinions, oh no....
i have so many of them, the dvsm suggests i am hoarding.
i reject such nonsense, and the bitching commences.

3/22/2012

i joined the https://www.facebook.com/MorningJoe chat thread bright and early as usual.
it is my personal car wreck and i just can't look away.
as news of the trayvon martin death spread, the last several days focused less on the gop clusterfuck, and more on the events surrounding the death of this young man.

joe opened the show from his home state of florida, and the first 30 minutes of programming was devoted to this story.

fb's mj chat thread was on fire with opinions, and as opinions go these were far, far, did i say far different than the usual attack, attack, attack behavior. i do believe this is when ann franks' "good" comes out in people as we tone tempers and attempt to tap into verbalizing our "feelings" rather than beat the shit out of each other with our opinions.

and it struck me the number of white people who kept pointing out their whiteness when expressing their sorrow in a way that suggests it is somehow odd for a white person to have sorrow over the death of a young, black man.
 

im old, i'm white, and i care

there were petitions to be signed coordinated by posters who less than 72 hours prior, said to another poster:

ms. links-a-lot: m.s. (a fellow mj poster) would vote for bozo the clown if he was white!
now i am all for the freedom to express yourself, but good gawd how do you say something like THAT and 3 days later start a petition about racial injustice? 

but ms. links-a-lot is also an old white woman in delaware.

from another poster whose name i deleted because i am "fair" to newbies:
name deleted: Don't let up on the Trayvon Martin coverage. People need to know the truth & his family deserves justice. With live from another white middle aged woman in upstate NY.
3 hours ago · Like · 4
to which i reply:
Cat Kerr "newbie"- as if it is weird a white woman would care about this? why mention your race in that post?
3 hours ago · Like · 1
Cat Kerr should you get extra props bc you're a white lady who says you care about a black kid?
why not, i care!

i had pretty much secured my position in the shitter for another day after that comment.
which is fine. 

mom! cat's in the toilet again.

i do bring these situations on myself by expressing strong opinions. so a'ight, if you wana roll, then baby i will verbally roll your ass into a little ball and kick you to the curb; albeit, in the kindest, gentlest way possible because i am zen and you are SO not.white people say the right things when they have to. especially in public, and even MORE especially on a chat thread where they will NEVER be accountable for one damned real thing.

GIVE ME A PEN! I CARE!

white people sign petitions, join in for a little outrage, donate a few bucks, talk about legislating some new shit to protect minorities, and long walks on the beach. but when it comes right down to it, white people don't get messy about it.

black people march. they dodge bullets. they get arrested and spend time in jail-
and NOT "occupy jail" where you pretend you just got stoned at woodstock, burned a flag, and spent the night in the pokey with the po po.  
unh uh, black people go to REAL jail where it's hard to get out.
they yell and scream and demand equal protection, representation, and freedom under the same constitution that provides the aforementioned for my old, white lady ass.


let this be a lesson to those who start petitions.
next time, get up off your ass and actually go DO something about something.
 
hypocrisy at the expense of a young black man, disgusts me. 
and ANYONE who uses  another person's tragedy as an excuse to promote a personal agenda of any kind will be called on it.
this is your opportunity to evolve.
do it.
cmk

kind hands have room for everyone

p.s. and i know this is super hard to believe, but, bozo THE clown is not on this ticket.

**this is also posted on my other blog, stalkingsmerconish.blogspot.com. due to it's relevance to both blogs, i am posting the same on both today )