BLL POS SPOTLIGHT

hunter moore, piece of shit

i am not a fan of dr. drew.
i am a fan of hlbic (head legal bitch in charge) nancy grace and if i do not click fast enough over from hln to msnbc's maddow, i get sucked into the dr. drew circus of the famously fucked-up.
enter hunter moore.
once upon a time, some girl had the audacity to break hunter's lil heart and he was not havin' it!
revenge came in the form a website that encouraged the broken-hearted to send in photographs of their exes in various stages of dress or undress. and surprisingly!! it was mostly the latter - the less dress and more humiliating all the better.
long story short, moore has shutdown his pos website and weirdly sold the domain to an anti-bully website that looks more like an episode of cnbc's 'mad money' with jim cramer, the bull included i kid you not!
the content is mostly cut and paste stories contributed by who the hell knows. the site is gaggingly celebritycentric and who is the last person on earth you want to hear about getting bullied?
for me, it's a kardashian, but you fill in the blank as you see fit.


well, guess who the first person you see on the newly acquired "anti-bully" website is?
dr. drew.
swear.
i refuse to watch the video, and yes i am going to make an ass-umption out of myself, but one year's pay- it is an anti-bullying psa by dr. drew.
so dr. drew appears on the site that was bought from pos hunter moore, who happened to be dr. drew's guest, who by all appearances seemed to outrage dr. drew but not so much that he chose to be affiliated with all of these pieces of shit.
no facebook like or thumbs up for you either, dr. drew.
and pffffft.

may i introduce you to a bully and then some, 

BLL'S POS OF THE DAY:

who could dump this?

http://www.stuff.co.nz/technology/digital-living/6801998/Revenge-porn-website-shut-down


it stops here
and it stops now.
cmk

   kenneth james weishuhn   

 

bullied to death

http://iowacity.patch.com/articles/gay-iowa-teen-s-suicide-spurs-cyberbullying-discussion-iowa-city- 

vigil-planned-for-friday

 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/17/kenneth-weishuhn-gay-iowa-teen-suicide_n_1431442.html
 beautiful video tribute to kenneth

http://www.cafemom.com/group/114201/forums/read/16414179/Wedding_Plans_of_Boy_Bullied_to_Death_Make_His_Suicide_Even_Harder_to_Bear
this will break your heart

http://ronkemp.blogspot.com/2012/04/kenneth-james-weishuhn-14-death-by.html
 please show your facebook support, here:

help make philadelphia a bully free city

recently, i heard shouting from rooftops and presidents, "trayvon martin could have been my son".
fine.

i'm going to shout, "kenneth james weishuhn could have been my son."

i want to hear presidents and people everywhere join me in shouting, "kenneth james weishuhn could have been my son."

and then let's DO something.
i live in the philly burbs; however, i have a car and i will drive to help organize an event; a meetup; whatever anyone in my area is committed to participating in.

there must be a national voice. families are suffering from state to state; however, we should take a page from the trayvon martin movement and unify the message:
it stops here and it stops now!
please help.

 

phoebe prince

 

bully pg-13 for wide release

https://www.facebook.com/bullymovie

http://stalkingsmerconish.blogspot.com/2012/04/bully-released-with-pg-13-rating.html

blockers, broads, bullies, and frauds

semper fi

i think of myself as a "broad".
for those of you under, like 40, a broad would be:
tarzan's jane
kathryn hepburn

hillary clinton

annie oakley
eleanor roosevelt

lady gaga
"broad" is an antiquated term for tough-as-nails women, and while it is totally outdated, i consider it complimentary.
many disagree.
but i was genetically predisposed and raised to be a broad.
my father is a retired marine. i was surrounded by 36 years worth of leatherneckery and even married a couple of them.
broad is in my blood and i wear her proudly.
however, even a broad gets her feelings hurt.
eleanor endured a marriage that included her husband and her husbands morally bankrupt sidepiece, and ran a country to boot!
i can now say the same for sec. of state clinton.
cowboys told annie oakley to put that gun away and go bake some pie.
i have to fess up and admit that there are moments when the bully behavior encouraged by the sandies and their ilk (lovelove that word) hits a nerve.
i'm old but better than that, i have reached a level of awareness so that i no longer feel "hurt" as i would if i were a child. 

heck, as few as 4 years ago i might have felt overwhelmed and ganged up on and bailed.
checked out fox(gasp!) news, or cnn.
no, it isn't hurtful as much as shocking that not only adults, but old-as-dirt adults behave this way.
more shocking than that, is the mob mentality that exists among the aforementioned older-than-dirt posters.
it is the 'cyber-bully domino effect': one confrontational post from the day's appointed instigator topples the first domino in a line of dominoes and all threadhell breaks lose for some poor loner domino.
now, the sandies themselves are the easy part.
anyone with an abysmal  knowledge of human nature and psychology can figure these two out within 10 posts.
not the problem.
i find the problem to be those who follow their example.
the ones who will only chat through private messaging, rather than the thread.
those with snide little digs cleverly directed at no one, yet obviously directed at someone.
the constant blocking, and here's my rant on that:
i believe i have mentioned these people are older-than-dirt, right? ok. when a user is blocked by another user, the blockee can't see the blocker's posts, and vice-versa. when 10 people block a user, the blockee see's 10 less conversations and so on, and i hope it is here you catch my drift.
bully-blocks render the mass-blocked poster as limp as a monk's dick.
the art of communicating with other adults is rendered impossible due to the inability to see half the damned conversations going on.
this does not hurt anything remotely close to a feeling; just pisses me off some days more than others.
and it is only the sandies and their ilk who encourage this negative threadetiquette.
i have never seen the thread repubs mass-block anyone.
i have never seen a thread repub announce to new posters, "block him! block her! block them!".
and when i do have the ability to see that with which you believe you have blocked, i never, ever see the level of hypocritical, name calling, lambasting, stereotyping, CAP LETTERING, from the thread repubs.
don't get me wrong, there are repub threadloons like yourselves, however, they are few in number and easily beaten up by your bully pulpiteers.
most of the time i shake it off and move on to my next big thing for the day.
some days i just want to rant about it.
today is that day.
in conclusion, there are sandies everywhere, of every age.
there are presumably full-grown men and women who fall in lockstep with  threadcliques consistenting of the downtrodden, the sickly, and ex-communicated priest-nurses and join the sour sandies at the hip of hate.
all bullies are mean and awful and they all suck.
especially the ones with grey hair, wrinkles, and sagging nut sacks.
there, i said it.
thank you for listening, now i am done )

it stops here, it stops now.
you're invited to join.
cmk

phoebe prince

p.s. buddha wasn't always buddha, either. once, he was a rich dude, as in 1% rich. he wasn't always perfect, and i have no expectation i will be either.

angry sandies

i have 2 threadnemesises intent on  painting me as the 'morning joe' town whore'.
weirdly, there are 4 derivatives of sandy all of whom i rub the wrong way. apparently i rub 2 particular sandies as if were an angry, republican masseuse, sumo-size.

from my facebook home page, i bounce over to the 'morning joe' thread. i often check it out after work, and sometimes open earlier chat threads to see if, in my absence someone had solved the obamacare deficiencies, or concluded who had actual sovereignty over who's vagina, or if anyone, resolved anything with  mutually respectful dialogue.
one poster on my favorite morning show thread is a dude named DonaldR. he is very measured and mature, and i cannot recall a time when he was awful to anyone. so, respect for DonaldR. of 'morning joe'.
i would hamster dance here, if:
a. the hamster dance was still relevant in 2012, or
b. could afford the bandwidth
so on with the show.
usually i threadon to catty sandies and their thread "friends" beating up republicans, stay-at-home-moms, and anyone who believes the idea that if and when my vaginal activity becomes a platform for gop debates, congressional hearings, and last but NOT at all least, sir limbaugh, it is at THAT moment that i remove my hoo hoo from your agenda and i will take care of her from hereto forth, as if she were my very own.however, thank you government, my government, for your interest in my twat; i got 'er from here.
oh! and it was the z-sandy that put her friends in quotes, not i.
(now y'all know why i was voted off the island, longest run-on sentence, second only to arlen specters latest book title which in total i believe, is 19 words long.)
19
if not beating up republicans, men are target numero dos.

all things bad can be traced back to something with a penis.
white ones, especially.
and if there are no peens on the thread, the conversation turns to the appointed, slutty girls.
so, who's voting for obama and who's voting for the terrestrial king?
it's a politics/pop culture/usa-style morning show.
this is NOT perez hilton.
cyber bullies tend to roam the www in herds.
this differs from  bullies one may physically, socially encounter in  school or a work setting. more often than not, there is a one-bully- per-capita-ratio, so it's one bully per whatever cliquey-group that capita happens to be. they follow their assigned bully around, but like 'west side story', there's tony and then there are a buncha sheep, i mean sharks.

cyber bullies on the other hand, flock together, and take advantage of facebook's - other than annoying, utterly useless tool- report user. sandies and their kind, regularly advise new posters to "ignore her!"; "don't chat with him; he's a repug!" or the girls at their finest, "she's sucha whore!"

and when the timing is perfect and all of the sandies collide, the morning show thread harkens me back to the days of slam books, class rings, and insincere ramblings from "friends" in a yearbook they would never otherwise sign if they didn't receive the benefit of memorializing their existence by signing your picture book.
problem? it's the air quotes.
those "friends" are the sucky, awful ones.
find friends. air-quote free ones.
and good luck to ya'.
now go behave and represent!

'bully' has limited release, march 30, 2012

 reactions for your consideration

OVER-THE-RHINE — Carol and Darryl Denham, of Taylor Mill, left a pre-screening of the film “Bully’’ last week hoping those in the audience would now understand what their son Sam, 13, went through.
http://news.cincinnati.com/article/20120326/NEWS/303260033/School-bully-film-makes-impression

The pre-screening of the film ‘Bully’ last week met with an enthusiastic response from attendees. Carol Denham’s son committed suicide in October aged 13, and it emerged he had been bullied.
http://www.educationnews.org/parenting/positive-reactions-at-bully-film-screening/

  I let the tears dry and reflected a bit before writing this.   From the opening moments of the Bully movie, my heart was breaking.  The stories woven through the film make very real the unbearable pain bullying leaves in its wake.  The NYC theater was filled, but it is not enough.
http://lifestoolbox.wordpress.com/2012/04/02/the-bully-movie-a-tool-for-beginning/

be well and peas out!

cmk